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What Porn, Affairs, and Early Romance Teach Us About Desire
on January 27, 2026The safety offered in long-term relationships can quietly diminish passion. Here’s what you can do about it.
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Are We Seriously Talking About Conscious AI?
on December 2, 2025We built AI to think like us, but what happens when we feel intimately connected to it?
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When AI Companions Feel Safer Than Human Connection
on November 19, 2025What if romantic and sexual relationships with chatbots aren’t an escape, but a smart defense in a world where compassion seems less accessible than rage?
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When Technology Makes Human Sex Feel Boring
on October 24, 2025What happens when our oldest instincts meet our newest technologies?
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Why We Dodge 'the Sex Talk' While Porn Teaches Kids Intimacy
on October 2, 2025Parents avoid sex talks due to discomfort, fear, and cultural taboos—even as kids see porn young.
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What Smart Glasses Reveal (and Conceal)
on September 23, 2025Smart glasses are reshaping the experience of being in public. Will they result in more privacy, trust, and consent concerns, and even fuel social anxiety?
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Incoming: New Era of Child Choosing Approaches
on September 19, 2025In Silicon Valley, "designer embryos" are redefine parenting—will you be next?
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AI Is Rewiring the Field of Psychotherapy
on September 4, 2025With AI now in the therapy room, the mental health profession is up for grabs.
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Are We Ignoring Tech’s Impact on Intimacy?
on August 4, 2025Personal Perspective: Our denial of this transformation is understandable, but could be dangerous. The future of intimacy as we know it requires our involvement today.
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A Cause of Erectile Dysfunction That We Are Ignoring
on July 15, 2025The sexual risks facing men who spray pesticides on our farms, homes, and lawns.
How Couples Can Cope with a Man’s Lost Interest in Sex
You’re a hetero female and your boyfriend has lost interest in sex. You feel lonely and even embarrassed when you want to have sex but the feelings aren’t reciprocated. Sexual rejection hurts, and it’s easy to take personally. You wonder, “Does he not find me...
What Does It Mean to Be Good in Bed?
I ask my clients about their best sex ever because I can learn a lot about them from this memory. Usually they don’t tell me about a specific experience. Instead, they tell me about their favorite lover. Being an incredible lover is a terrific goal. Why? Because it’s...
7 Keys to Enjoying Sex More
This could be the most important blog post about sex that you will ever read. Why? Because regardless of how satisfied you are with your sex life now, at some point in your life, you’ll probably need this guidance. As a sex therapist, I speak regularly with people who...
The Sex Robots are Coming!
Our world is changing faster than at any point in history. We expect ourselves to roll with these changes, as if this is what we humans are designed to do. But that’s just not the case. Our biology is predicated upon a much slower civilization. ...
Acting Your Age Between the Sheets
For a natural act, sex can be surprisingly challenging. It is remarkably easy to feel threatened, hurt, rejected, or self-conscious in intimate moments. And that just makes sense, because it is during love-making that we are most vulnerable and exposed – we are even...
Making Love with Your Clothes On
Want to improve your sex life? The next time you are going to make love, KEEP YOUR CLOTHES ON. I mean, for the entire experience. Forget about penetration, orgasm, and all that jazz that distracts us from what the experience is really about. I’m sure you think I’m...
Maturity is Sexy!
What do you think? Is her maturity sexy? Western cultures promote the perception that of all ages, young women are the most sexual. We are brainwashed with messages suggesting that it’s women in their late teens and early twenties who are the true sexual dynamos. But...
When She’s Stronger Than Her Man in Bed
Sex is compelling for many different reasons. It can relieve a physical desire, enable a deep, intimate connection with another, and provide an opportunity to experience erotic sensations and emotions that we don’t feel in day to day life. Vulnerability and surrender...